Instead of raising a fist at those who have done you wrong or challenged you every step of the way, say thank you. They have given you the opportunity to grow, change and reassess your situation. They are making you stronger, more determined and are helping you define what exactly is your truth. Getting clear, real and committed comes from facing adversity not living a gooshy life full of compliments and yes dear you are so wonderful. So let yourself be challenged, let someone question your path. They are a gift giving you the opportunity to stand tall and be true to you.